{"id":643,"date":"2026-02-22T06:42:00","date_gmt":"2026-02-22T12:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.calvarycathedral.com\/wpbobnichols\/?p=643"},"modified":"2026-02-22T19:57:33","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T01:57:33","slug":"do-not-attempt-to-force-god","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.calvarycathedral.org\/wpbobnichols\/2026\/02\/22\/do-not-attempt-to-force-god\/","title":{"rendered":"Do Not Attempt To Force God"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(Below is an excerpt from Pastor&#8217;s book, &#8220;How to Find Life in Dead Situations&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes God\u2019s silence is a good thing.&nbsp; We have a little problem in that we think we have to understand why everything happens.&nbsp; I am here to tell you, there are some things for which we do not have the answers.&nbsp; Only God has the answer.&nbsp; I remember when my precious Bible school friend, Sam Smith\u2019s young son passed away in his sleep.&nbsp; He was only 25 years of age, a body builder, strong, handsome and just going to his first pastorate.&nbsp; That was a rough one.&nbsp; No one knew he had any disease.&nbsp; Dr. Kenneth Hagin and I were the two that conducted that memorial service and I will never forget the wisdom that Dr. Hagin spoke on that occasion.&nbsp; He spoke from Deuteronomy 29:29 that the secret things belong unto the Lord.&nbsp; There are some things we will never know until we are in the presence of God and there are other things that God does choose to reveal.&nbsp; I have certain things that God has spoken to me, but in other areas there is silence.&nbsp; I have found out that when God speaks \u2013 listen, but do not try to break the silence of God.&nbsp; Sometimes God is quiet.&nbsp; Sometimes the greatest men and women of God throughout the Bible did not hear from God at the moment they desired.&nbsp; They eventually did, but it is not wise to try to force a word from God.<\/p>\n<p>In John 11:6, when Jesus had heard that Lazarus was sick, He stayed where He was and it was four days until He finally arrived on the scene.&nbsp; Why?&nbsp; It is none of our business!&nbsp; There is one thing that you can believe; it is all going to come out all right.&nbsp; I would rather Jesus take four days and everything come out all right than we force something prematurely and mess things up.&nbsp; Everything is beautiful in God\u2019s time (Ecclesiastes 3:11).&nbsp; God is going to work everything out that you have truly committed into His hands.&nbsp; I see people getting antsy and taking action when they should be waiting and listening.&nbsp; When this happens people can really mess up their life and sometimes someone else\u2019s.&nbsp; Even the sisters of Lazarus sent a message to Jesus saying, <em>\u201c. . . behold, he whom thou lovest is sick.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp; They were trying to put the pressure on Him, yet Jesus stayed away two days.&nbsp; Sometimes God is vocal; sometimes He is silent.&nbsp; <em>\u201cThen when Jesus came, he found that he had lain in the grave four days already\u201d<\/em> (John 11:17).<\/p>\n<p>There have been times that I wanted to see God act and it just did not happen at that time.&nbsp; Some things happened later, just not when I expected.&nbsp; A number of years ago I was crying out to God for something that I thought God had missed a glorious opportunity to do immediately. God spoke to my heart and said, \u201cI am going to do it.&nbsp; And if you will just be patient, I am not only going to bless you, but I am going to bless five other people in the process.\u201d&nbsp; Now isn\u2019t that better for God to be able to bless five other people in the process than for me to get what I wanted from God?&nbsp; See, this is very practical, and it is very wonderful.&nbsp; God\u2019s timing is important.&nbsp; We just need to let go and let God have His wonderful way!<\/p>\n<p>Do not try to break the silence of God, but also never forget that Jesus really does love and Jesus really does care.&nbsp; In fact, the shortest expression in the Word of God is John 11:35, <em>\u201cJesus wept.\u201d&nbsp; <\/em>Somehow we think that Jesus was not capable of that, but Jesus wept.&nbsp; The Bible also tells us that on two different occasions, He groaned.&nbsp; His heart was touched.&nbsp; Maybe in Lazarus\u2019 case He was touched because of the grief that surrounded the situation.&nbsp; Maybe He was touched because of the sisters and the fellowship He had enjoyed in their home.&nbsp; I do not know what all the motivations were.&nbsp; Maybe His weeping and groaning were because of the unbelief that surrounded Him.&nbsp; Whatever the case may be you really have to believe that Jesus does love and care.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Below is an excerpt from Pastor&#8217;s book, &#8220;How to Find Life in Dead Situations&#8221;) Sometimes God\u2019s silence is a good thing.&nbsp; We have a little problem in that we think we have to understand why everything happens.&nbsp; I am here to tell you, there are some things for which we do not have the answers.&nbsp; &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.calvarycathedral.org\/wpbobnichols\/2026\/02\/22\/do-not-attempt-to-force-god\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Do Not Attempt To Force God&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-643","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-book-excerpt"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.calvarycathedral.org\/wpbobnichols\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Fighter-600x400-1.jpg?fit=600%2C400&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8lc9u-an","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1101,"url":"https:\/\/www.calvarycathedral.org\/wpbobnichols\/2022\/05\/09\/judge-not\/","url_meta":{"origin":643,"position":0},"title":"Judge Not","author":"Bob Nichols","date":"May 9, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"A young man, 16 years of age, came into the revival in June of 1993. 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